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Stoicism: what's in your control?

Epictetus's core idea: separate what you can influence from what you can't, and put your energy only into the former.

// What the research shows

Right at the start of his Handbook (Encheiridion), the StoicStoicism An ancient school of philosophy teaching you to focus on what you can influence yourself. More in the glossary → Epictetus (c. 50–135 CE) distinguishes between things that are up to us, such as our judgements, intentions and actions, and things that are not, such as our body, possessions and reputation. Distress, according to Epictetus, comes from trying to control the latter. He taught philosophy as a way of life, not as theory. The Handbook itself is a brief summary of his teaching, recorded by his student Arrian.

// In practice

// Limitations & open questions

This is a philosophical teaching, not an empirical study. It can't be graded A, B or C. Whether it helps you is something to try for yourself.

// Sources

last reviewed: 2026-11-13

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